As a man you will go through different transitions in your life; from a child to a boy, a boy to a young adult, and from just a man to a MAN. In All these transition, AGE is a MINOR Aspect. How you think, what you talk, your Character, Passion, Resilience and Handling of responsibilities are the MAJOR aspects.
Every transition has its role(s). Life is cool, as men, we meet with friends, have some drinks, have some “men talks”, plan, and the biggest moment of all “WATCHING SOCCER GAMES”. That’s how it goes especially to majority of men.
Work on the other side, is important too; we all need to achieve something in life, so WE WORK. A Man despite all the responsibilities, he will always find some time for friends and refreshments.
But things get a little bit different when you “BECAME” a husband!
Talking of BECOMING a husband, I don’t mean "just someone who got married"! You can “BE” a husband just because you are married; but “BECOMING” a husband is another process. Just like having electricity in your house, it doesn’t mean you won’t experience darkness; you probably will unless you switch-on the light.
“BE-COMING”, GOES A BIT FURTHER THAN “BE”… BE-COMING IS THE FACT THAT YOU ARE BUT YOU FURTHERLY UNDERSTAND THE SIGNIFICANCE OF A PROGRESS AND IMPROVEMENT. BE-COMING IS A PROCESS… YOU CAN BIOLOGICALLY “BE” A MAN, BUT “BE-COMING” A MAN IS ANOTHER PROCESS… AND SO IS BECOMING A HUSBAND... You can BE a husband but BECOMING ONE, is another process.
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I personally think BECOMING a husband even before you are married, is The best way of having a successful manliness… and a promising future in family and relationship.
Becoming Available when needed. Investing to bring out the best of a woman. Satisfying: emotionally, financially and physically. That’s a responsibility of a husband.
If you are a woman and you are in a relationship with a man who wants TO BE a husband but IS NOT BECOMING a husband as he progressively wants to BE a husband; you probably need to talk to him.
So much responsibility when you BECOME a husband and so little time for everything else. Anyways! So much changes when you become a husband, no much time for friends as before, though we always find time even a little. No much freedom (as a state of being idle) as before, Hard Choices to make and lots of sacrifices (You only know how much someone loves you by the sacrifices he/she makes for you).
You begin to see your position and contribution when you BECOME a husband. How you add value and meaning and color to somebody else’s life. How you become a shelter and a resting place for someone. How you become an answer for someone’s challenges/problems. BECOMING A HUSBAND IS INDEED A HELL OF RESPONSIBILITY. Equipping yourself with an ability to nurture a family, children with different traits, isn’t something ordinary.
You can be, Not Married yet, BUT A HUSBAND. A role model to your sisters (they will know who is a husband by knowing who you are) Shining light to friends, believing it is through how you treat, respect, and behave; that lays a cornerstone of Manliness.
Becoming a husband is a state of Manhood's achievement in regardless to marital status.
Be a husband (based on traditional qualifications) is one thing, BECOMING A HUSBAND (A genuine Man, with a clear conscience and a lifestyle of Protecting, Providing, Planning and sustaining) is the other side of the coin.
YOU CAN CHOOSE TO BECOME ONE; THE BEST OF YOUR KIND. AND YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT.
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