We all know that we are unique, special and beautiful; just by how we differ from each other. Yes, it’s our uniqueness and difference that displays our beauty and our greatness. Unfortunately sometimes we find ourselves forgetting the simple fact that we are UNIVERSAL BUT UNIQUE.
The universality and uniqueness among human beings of course is one of the key concepts to all who study about social sciences, psychology and other related disciplines. It’s very important to know this for ourselves; however it further plays a very substantial part in how we live and treat other people around or with us.
Have you ever come to a point of grouping yourself simply because of professional similarities, income evenness, tribal characters, experiences etc.? Undeniably in one way or another or/and in some points we have found ourselves in a gumshoe of being wrapped up by a group lifestyle, perceptions and ideologies.
There is nothing like “A GROUP LIFE” regardless of how similar you may be to each other. Grouping yourself will do nothing but limiting your mind and dreams. In most cases we find our comfort zones in groups we think they contains people who are like us, or in our class, people who face the same challenges as we do, people with similar abilities to us, and desires as we do.
In a group, most of the time people will only be complaining on how hard, limited, unfairly and impossible their life opportunities are.
Be a person who always discourages statements like: “we are just teachers/petty business men/lawyers/nurses etc. Our salaries are very ordinary and so our lives are limited”! "We are nothing but cleaners/house maids". "Your profession has no chance to make a significant advancement to our society"; "science students are superior to arts or economics students"!
Everybody is a genius in his/her areas of potential, talent and abilities. Some people haven’t gone to school at all but they can do far better than professors! (To those in Tanzania you all saw that boy from Mwanza who can design cities and buildings; it was such an amazing talent. He was doing something unbelievable, something that even PhD engineers can hardly do perhaps) Imagine what will happen to him if he won’t be able to see himself that special and hence fall under a trap of “I am not intellectually qualified as they are! So I can’t do further or believe in the future of my works”
Get out of group thinking.
YOU ARE THE DETERMINING FACTOR OF YOUR FORTUNE. See yourself unique and responsible for your own life. See yourself in power.
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